Unsubstantiated
Medical Statements
There are numerous medical statements made throughout
`Babywise' without any references or research backing
it up, many of these are the antithesis of well
known medical research, even though Dr. Bucknam
claims that Babywise contains "medically sound
principles" (p. 14). A few of these examples
by Mr. Ezzo and Dr. Bucknam follow. Some of the
statements contain the names of fictional examples,
Chelsea - a parent directed fed baby, and Marissa
- a demand-fed baby.
- "Attachment
parenting theories are not well grounded on an
impeccable body of evidence" (p. 38). [2001: "attachment parenting theory...is driven by an interesting but unproven philosophical assumption--birth trauma." The paragraph equivocates by adding that "theories of attachment" are actually the "generally accepted truth that infants are born with the capacity and need for warm, loving, and intimate relationships. When these relationships are secured from loving parents, the foundation for all future emotional bonds is established."(p 32, 2001)]
-
"Lack of regularity sends a negative signal
to the baby's body, creating metabolic confusion
that negatively affects his or her hunger, digestive,
and sleep/wake cycles" (p. 43). "Parent-directed feeding provides necessary guidance. It establishes for baby a rhythmic structure which helps hunger cycles synchronize with planned wake and sleep times....In contrast, erratic feeding periods confuse an infant's young memory....there is no chance for the hunger/wake/sleep mechanism to stabilize. Baby is confused, uncomfortable, perhaps insecure. This absence of routine for baby typically breeds unhealthy sleep patterns."
- "Medical
authorities know that when you deal with life-and-death
situations, babies thrive better when fed on routine
as compared to nonroutine feedings" (p. 44).
- "A
breast feeding mom is more likely to be successful
with a daily infant plan than with random feeding
periods" (p. 44). [2001: "Chelsea's mom feels healthier as a result of her established feeding routine." (p. 44, 2001)]
- "Chelsea's
digestive system will have fewer problems with
colic-like symptoms when compared with her demand-fed
cousin" (p. 45).
- "Between
the third and eighth week, her [Chelsea's] mom
can expect her to begin sleeping seven to eight
hours straight through the night. Chelsea will
probably sleep ten to twelve hours per night by
week twelve" (p. 45).
- "Learning
disorders associated with nonstructured styles
of parenting-including deficiencies in sitting,
focusing, and concentrating-are minimized with
routine" (p. 46).
- "Mothers
who are constantly attentive by way of baby slings,
shared sleep, and demand feeding, all in hopes
of fostering security, too often accomplish the
opposite" (p. 46).
- "Marissa's
mom tends to be "strung out" emotionally.
. . in a sense is in bondage to her daughter's
unpredictability. . . many moms whofeed their
babies on demand are so tired that they prematurely
give upbreast-feeding. . . Marissa's mom nurses
her baby so often that sometimes her let-down
is delayed, frustrating her child. Or worse yet,
her let-down may not occur at all. . .Marissa's
mom had a terrible bout with postpartum depression.
Her condition is not unusual for mothers whose
bodies are worn out from the absence of structure.
. .Chelsea's mom and the other mothers who follow
PDF have less maternal anxiety thanmothers who
choose to demand-feed" (pp. 46-47).
- "Demand-fed
babies don't sleep through the night" (p.
52).
- "Healthy,
full-term newborns have a predisposition for continuous
nighttime sleep by the eighth week. Newborn sleep
cycles do not stabilize until hunger and digestive
patterns are stabilized. Routine parental interaction
helps stabilize hunger patterns. Inconsistent
parental interaction fosters irregular hunger
patterns, thereby creating instability in the
child's sleep/wake cycles" (p. 53).
- "Babies
know when they are hungry, but they are not capable
of regulating their hunger patterns. And yes,
babies know when they are tired, but they are
not capable of establishing stable sleep/wake
cycles on their own. Parental guidance is necessary"
(p. 54). [page 47 in Babywise
2001]
- "Erratic
feeding periods confuse an infant's young memory.
Since the parental response changes from day to
day, often hour to hour, there is no chance for
the hunger mechanism to stabilize. With the way
Marissa is being fed, any programmed stability
will be a matter of chance. That's why Marissa
will probably take two years before she sleeps
through the night, and why she is a candidate
for sleep-related problems in childhood"
(p. 55).
- "Whether
feeding is accomplished by a bottle or the breast
is not as important as the gentle and tender cuddling
you give him during feeding" (p. 63).
- "A
mother who takes her baby to her breast twelve,
fifteen, or twenty times a day will not produce
any more milk than the mom who takes her baby
to breast six to seven times a day" (p. 65).
[reiterated in Babywise
2001 using 12/15/20 contrasted to 8/9 p 67]
- "Too
many snack feedings (with too little time between
feedings) may reduce proper stimulation; too few
feedings (too much time between feedings) reduces
milk production" (p. 66).
[reiterated p 68]
- "Consistently
feeding sooner than two and one-half hours can
wear Mom down, causing a decrease in milk production"
(p. 67). [reiterated using
1.5 to 2 hours--p 74]
- "Mothers
following PDF have little or no problem with the
let down reflex, compared to those who demand-feed"
(p. 68).
- "Demand-fed
babies tend to snack all day. PDF babies have
a complete meal at each feeding. The child who
nurses frequently and takes in fewer ounces of
milk will naturally be hungry more often. In contrast,
the child on PDF takes in more ounces of milk
at a feeding, thereby causing the digestive and
absorption processes to take longer" (p.
69).[reworded: Breast milk
is digested faster than formula, but that doesn't
justify unlimited breast-feedings to try and play
catch-up. Rather than comparing breast milk to
formula, it's more useful to look at the amount
of breast milk consumed at each feeding. The AP
style of demand-feeding does not distinguish between
snack time and mealtime. For these mothers, a
feeding is a feeding. The child who nurses frequently
and takes in fewer ounces, especially of foremilk,
will naturally be hungry more often. PDF moms
look to deliver full meals at each feeding.--p70]
- "Between
nine and twelve months, the nutritional value
of breast milk drops and food supplements are
usually needed" (p. 73).
[p. 79]
- "Formulas
these days have properties closely matched to
those of breastmilk, including the proper balance
and quantity of proteins, fats, and carbohydrates"
(p. 76). [p. 82]
- "The
average number of feedings in a twenty-four-hour
period [for a newborn to eight week old] will
be seven to eight before your baby is sleeping
through the night, and six to eight feedings afterwards.
Although you will be dropping the nighttime feeding
at this point, you will not be reducing your baby's
caloric intake, just rearranging the time of intake"
(p. 102).
- "There
are some little ones whose internal clocks get
"stuck" at the nighttime feeding. Parental
guidance can help reset that clock. If you have
a digital timepiece and notice that your baby
is waking at nearly the same time each night,
that's a strong indicator that his or her biological
clock is stuck. To correct the problem, wait for
a weekend when no one has to get up early for
work. (You may want to sleep in if your sleep
is disturbed by your baby's crying during the
night .) When your baby awakens, don't rush right
in to him or her. Any crying will be temporary,
lasting from five to forty-five minutes. Remember,
this will be temporary! Some parents fear that
failing to respond right away will make their
baby feel unloved or insecure. On the contrary,
it's cruel not to help your child gain the skill
of sleeping through the night. Taking the baby
into bed with you will delay the learning process"
(p. 112). [Mostly reiterated
in Babywise 2001 p 124]
- "There
may be a brief period of fussing or crying when
you put the baby down for a nap. Don't be deterred
from doing what is best for the child. Crying
isn't the terrible beast that some of the last
generation of medical practitioners thought it
was. Some crying is a normal part of a baby's
day and some babies will cry a few minutes in
the process of settling themselves to sleep. The
future trade-off will be a baby who goes down
for a nap without fussing and wakes up cooing.
Crying for 15-20 or even 30 minutes is not going
to hurt your baby physically or emotionally. Your
baby will not lose brain cells, experience a drop
in IQ, or have feelings of rejection that will
leave waking hours with a few minutes of crying.
On the other hand, if you want a fussy baby, never
let him cry, and hold, rock, and feed him as soon
as he starts to fuss. We guarantee you will achieve
your goal" (p. 118-119).
"Seventy percent of PDF babies drop the middle-of-the-night
feeding on their own. The remaining thirty percent
need a little nudge. This may involve some crying,
which might continue for as little as five minutes
or last as long as one hour, off and on. It usually
takes three days to establish unbroken sleep cycles
at this age" (p. 120).
- "Immediate-gratification
training negatively impacts a child's ability
to learn the skills of sitting, focusing, and
concentrating" (p. 128). ["Research has clearly demonstrated
that immediate-gratification training negatively
impacts a child's ability to learn, affecting
the skills of sitting, focusing, and concentrating." p.141]
- "It
is commonly observed that babies under the parent-directed-feeding
plan tend to cry less in the long run than babies
who are demand-fed"(p. 129).
["Babies under the parent-directed
feeding plan tend to cry less in the long run
than babies who are demand fed." -p 141]
- "With
demand-fed babies, cries are unpredictable, leaving
mom and dad guessing and anxious" (p. 130).
- "Because
Marissa is not on a routine, she is much more
likely to be a fussy baby" (p. 135).
["Since Marisa lacks routine in her
life, she is much more likely to be considered
a fussy baby." p. 149]
- "Colic,
which basically is a spasm in the baby's intestinal
tract that causes pain, is very rare in PDF babies
but is intensified in demand-fed babies"
(p. 135). [Changed to: "There
is much disagreement as to the true origin of
this overused condition. In Dr. Bucknam's medical
practice and in testimonies from hundreds of former
demand-feeding mothers, bouts of colic-like symptoms
are substantially reduced with PDF. The last thing
you should put into an irritated stomach is food.....If
your child does suffer from colic, the best thing
you can do is to keep that child on a routine.
This allows his or her stomach to rest between
feedings".--p. 149-150]
- "Although
some women find themselves depressed and weepy
several days after giving birth, not all women
experience postpartum depression. Many who do
have certain traits in common-they're not on a
routine, they nurse frequently, and they are up
several times during the night--all of which leave
them in a perpetual state of exhaustion. Each
of these symptoms can be traced back to the strain
that lack of routine puts on a mother" (p.
156). [p. 186]
- "If
you use a sling, do so thoughtfully. In our opinion,
much more developmental damage is done to a child
by holding him or her constantly than by putting
the baby down. . . In terms of biomechanics alone,
carrying a baby in a sling can increase neck and
back problems, or even create them" (p. 159-160). [ "In terms of biomechanics alone,
carrying a baby in a sling may increase neck and
back problems, or even create them"--p190]
- "Some
researchers suggest that putting a baby on his
or her back for sleep, rather than on the baby's
tummy, will reduce the chance of crib death. That
research is not conclusive, and the method of
gathering supportive data is questionable"
(p. 166). [Changed
to: Today research strongly suggests and the American
Academy of Pediatrics recommends that putting
a baby on his or her back for sleep, rather than
on the baby's tummy, reduces the risk of SIDS.
What is not conclusive is whether back sleeping
is the primary or secondary factor in the reduction
of risk. Does the supine position (wholly on the
back) remove the child from soft surfaces and
gas-trapping objects(mattresses, pillows, crib
liners), which could be the actual risk facto,
or is ti actaully the biomechanics of tummy-sleeping?
MOre research is need to answer that question.
Meanwhile, we suggest you speak to your health
care provider if you have any questions concerning
SIDS and the positioning of your baby. Parents
ask us if back positioning will interfere with
the establishment of healthy sleep. The answer
is no."--p 196]
- In
a question and answer section:
Question:
"My two-week old daughternurses on one
side, then falls asleep. Two hours later,
she wants to eat again. What should I do?
Answer:
You need to keep your baby awakeduring feeding
time. . . Babies learn very quickly from the
laws of natural consequences. If your daughter
doesn't eat at one feeding, then make her
wait until the next one. That will probably
only happen once. Don't feed her between routine
mealtimes; otherwise, you are teaching her
to snack, not eat" (p. 180).[Reworded
and changed to:
If she is hungry, feed her, but work on keeping
your baby awake to take a full feeding from
both breasts. Here are some ideas: Change
her diaper between sides; undress her; rub
her head or feet with a cool, damp washcloth.
Do what you must to keep her awake. Then finish
the task at hand. Baby must eat. If you allow
baby to snack, she won't argue with that.
Babies learn very quickly to become snackers
if you let them. If your baby increasingly
becomes characterized by snacking, you must
work on stretching the times between feedings
to make the 2 1/2 hour minimum. p 175]
- Again,
in a question and answer section:
Question:
"My baby is eight weeks old and has not
yet slept through the night. What should I
do to eliminate the middle-of-the-night feeding?
Answer:
If he is waking every night at basically the
same time, then he is waking out of nighttime
habit and not out of need. If that's the case,
you may need to help him eliminate the feeding
period by not physically attending to him.
Normally it takes three nights of some crying
before the habit is broken. He will never
remember those three nights, nor will they
have any negative effects on him" (p.
182). [Reworded on page 178, example changed to
10 week old baby, other options listed, and
the statement "nor will they have any
negative effects on him" has been changed
tot, "Helping baby learn this behavior
has positive long-term benefits on you both."]
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