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Original Living Hope Evangelical Fellowship's Statement About Gary Ezzo

Note: Philip Hanson, an elder at Living Hope Evangelical Fellowship sent me an e-mail Nov 3, 2000 asking me to remove this statement because this "public rebuke" was intended for only those who are pastors and elders but not the church at large. However, I am not removing this file. I believe that I Tim 5:19-20 commands the rebuke be to the public themselves, not just their leaders. In any case it is worth noting that it is not at the request of LHEF that this document is here. Just the opposite.

Note2: Philip, by his request, verified the authenticity of this statement. If you desire any additional verification of the authenticity I would suggest contacting those at Living Hope Evangelical Fellowship.

Note3: This statement has been superceded by a New Statement dated November 1, 2000.

Living Hope Evangelical Fellowship
April 30, 2000

Elders' Statement Regarding Gary Ezzo's Church Discipline

Church Statement: One way God calls upon us to love one another in "fulfilling the law of Christ" (Gal. 6:1-2; Matt. 22:29) is by our humble effort to restore a brother when he sins. The Bible does not describe church discipline as a form of punishment inflicted upon those who refuse to conform but rather as a positive ministry which is designed for the benefit of the individual, the church, and the glory of God. Just as God's discipline of Christians is for their welfare and as every father disciplines his own children whom he loves (Heb. 12:6-7), so also church discipline is a ministry of love in which the entire church family must participate. In our understanding of Scripture, biblical discipline will be exercised wherever the local church truly seeks to be a family of families (1 Tim. 3:14-16).

Though it grieves us to speak of our brother's failings, our greater commitment to God's glory, the authority of Scripture and the purity of the flock which God has entrusted to us to shepherd compel us to bring public rebuke when a public minister continues in sin (1 Tim. 5:19-20).

When a pattern of sin surfaced in Gary Ezzo's life, as his elders we sought to restore him in accordance to God's Word (1 Tim. 5:19-20; Matt. 18:15-18; 1 Cor. 5:12-13). Speaking to him in the authority of Christ's name (1 Cor. 5:4) we lovingly called upon our fellow church member to honor God by acknowledging and turning away from his deceitful speech by which he was inflicting harm upon others. Over the last several weeks we have pleaded with Gary to repent, in the hope and prayer that he would to turn from sin and begin to walk in truth and integrity.

It saddens us to know that Gary has failed to repent of former sins which we confronted, and even sadder still we have learned from him that he continues to widen the circle of his lies, slander, gossip and false accusations. Because of his persistent unwillingness to respond to biblical admonition (1 Tim. 5:19-20; Matt. 18:15-18; Luke 17:3), which he received from his elders and church family, we are fearful that Gary's heart has been hardened by the deceitfulness of sin and as a consequence he is resolved to continue in disobedience to the will of God (Heb. 3:13-14). Confronting Gary in a biblical process has revealed that when it comes to himself and other matters that reflect upon the question of his integrity, there is a pattern in Gary of struggling with truth. Rather than waiting on God's provision, when confronted in his sins Gary readily sets aside integrity and seeks to protect himself by a rejection of the very spiritual authority God placed over him for his own spiritual welfare. Furthermore, by the fruits of his life, especially his words, Gary has manifested a lack of Christian character essential to leadership in the church.

Therefore, upon the authority of God's Word and the authority God invests in the church, and upon the basis of facts established by biblical process, Gary Ezzo has been excommunicated from Living Hope Evangelical Fellowship (1 Cor. 5:13; Matt. 18:17). In the end, it was his impenitence that caused us to put him out of the church . The pattern of sin which made that measure spiritually necessary also explains why as Gary's elders we believe he is biblically disqualified from all public ministry. Although his excommunication from our church means that LHEF is no longer carrying out a process of restoration we pray that God will use this measure to win back Gary's heart and restore truth and integrity to his life.

Frank York's Open Letter to Multnomah about Gary Ezzo

An Open Letter to Multnomah Publishing
About Gary Ezzo and Growing Families International

From Frank York,
Former Editorial Director At GFI

January 4, 2001


Publisher Donald Jacobson
Multnomah Publishing, Inc.
P.O. Box 1720
Sisters, Oregon 97759


Dear Mr. Jacobson,

On your Multnomah web site, you state that your company's motto is: "Keeping your trust--one book at a time." In addition, you state that one of Multnomah's key core values is "unquestioned integrity in all transactions and relationships." As integrity is a key core value of your publishing company, I hope that this concern for integrity also applies to the authors you publish. If one of your authors has integrity problems, this certainly reflects badly on your publishing endeavors.

Thomas Nelson, a Nashville-based publishing company recently dealt with the serious integrity problems of Gwen Shamblin, creator of Weigh Down Workshops. After learning that Shamblin had a heretical view of the Trinity, Thomas Nelson pulled her soon-to-be published book and severed its relationship with her. This took great courage, but Thomas Nelson chose integrity over profits.

With the issue of integrity in mind, I am writing to ask that you conduct a thorough investigation of the serious charges made against Gary Ezzo in the November 13, 2000, issue of Christianity Today.

The article, written by Kathleen Terner, is a painstakingly accurate account of the most recent controversies surrounding the questionable character of Gary Ezzo, founder of Growing Families International.

As his publisher--and as a publisher who is deeply committed to integrity--it is important that you make an honest attempt to discover if the charges made against Gary Ezzo are true.

As the former Editorial Director at GFI, and one who viewed Gary Ezzo up close for two years, I can assure you that Mrs. Terner's article is accurate.

As you may know, I was mentioned in the article as one who was given the job by Gary of secretly obtaining a legal opinion to be used against Pastor John MacArthur. It was Gary's intent to hide his involvement in an effort to turn MacArthur in to the Internal Revenue Service for an audit.

I was asked to obtain the legal opinion and pay the lawyer's fee with a personal check. I was then reimbursed by Gary with a check signed by Anne Marie. This "money laundering" scheme was designed to hide Gary's involvement.

Gary also fabricated a supposedly "verbatim" interview with Roy Maynard, a writer with World magazine who had written an article critical of Growing Families International in 1996. I was tasked with proofreading this interview and learned that Gary had created a phony conversation with Maynard based on two phone calls. After viewing Gary's hastily scribbled notes of this interview and comparing it to what he had given me to proofread, it was obvious that he had made up the conversation. This supposedly "verbatim" interview was posted on the Internet as a way of discrediting Maynard.

Gary also asked me to find out if Roy Maynard and Marvin Olasky, the respected editor of World magazine, had prison records. He wanted me to publish these on the Internet as a way of discrediting these men and World magazine. I told Gary that if they did have prison records before they became Christians, this was irrelevant because they had been forgiven by the Lord. Fortunately, he never mentioned the idea again. But this incident clearly showed me the extent to which Gary was willing to go to smear his opponents.

In late 1997, I was asked by Robert Garcia, Gary's son-in-law (who has confessed to the "misappropriation" of GFI funds), to conduct research to see if there were any medical inaccuracies in Preparation for Parenting, the "Christian" version of On Becoming Babywise, one of several Ezzo books that you publish.

I completed my report in January of 1998 and turned it in to Garcia. In my research of Preparation for Parenting, I found numerous medical errors and dozens of statements that were made as "fact," when there was no evidence one way or the other to prove their accuracy.

Gary, for example, claimed that nameless "researchers" understood the importance of parents using "playpens" to teach infants focusing and concentration skills. I asked my GFI boss if Gary had any scientific data to back up his claim but was told Gary had no such research. I could not locate any research to back up his claim--yet he stated this as fact in Preparation for Parenting and also in Babywise. This is only one of many examples of his false medical statements. Neither Robert nor Gary ever acknowledged receiving my report.

During this same time period, I learned that Dr. Matt Aney, a California pediatrician, was also doing research into the medical inaccuracies in Gary's parenting materials. In Babywise, he discovered 35 false medical statements or statements that could not be substantiated. He published these findings on the Internet.

While working for Gary, I was given the job of monitoring GFI's "enemies" on the Internet. In my early months at GFI, I was confused as to why Gary would have enemies, but it became crystal clear soon enough as I continued reading the well-reasoned comments from his critics. I also learned from personal experience why Gary would have enemies. He routinely treated those around him with contempt. In fact, Robert Garcia once told me that Gary thought everyone on his staff (with the exception of Robert) were "idiots." This was a very candid admission and one that troubled me greatly. This attitude seemed at odds with the Ezzos' supposed concern for the "preciousness of others," a term they use frequently in their speeches and writings.

As I read the writings of Gary's critics, I began to realize that he was a very sloppy and uncaring writer who seemed to have little concern for accuracy when making medical statements about infant feeding methods, playpens, sleep patterns, or breastfeeding. The facts and logic used by his critics made me aware that his writings were filled with medical errors as well as theological problems.

In addition, I daily monitored the LACTNET web site, a forum for lactation experts. On this site were numerous discussions of the tragedy of "Ezzo Babies." These were newborns who had suffered from malnutrition or were considered "failure-to-thrive" infants due to Gary's infant feeding recommendations in Babywise and Preparation for Parenting.

Over the period of a year and a half, I sent Gary memos and examples from LACTNET of these failure-to-thrive or malnourished infants. His response was less than satisfactory. He told me these cases were either "fabricated" or "exaggerated." From my perspective, it appeared that he didn't care if babies were being harmed by his recommendations. I thought he would want to undertake a serious investigation of these cases, but he didn't.

The longer I worked for Gary, the more concerned I became about what I saw as his pattern of lying to me. When I shared this concern with a fellow GFI employee, he readily told me that many GFI staffers knew Gary was a liar. This was a disturbing admission, but it did not surprise me. It merely confirmed what I was already experiencing in my interactions with Gary. I found this pattern of lying to be deeply ingrained in Gary's character. In fact, witness after witness has given testimony to this fact--from former employees--as well as from Pastors John MacArthur and Dave Maddox (Gary's most recent former pastor who excommunicated him for lying, gossip, and causing division).

Sadly, Gary continues to compound his old lies with new lies. His most recent response to the Christianity Today article is a case in point. It is a masterpiece of half-truths, innuendoes, and omissions to portray himself as a victim. His response is very much like that of Bill Clinton when he was being questioned under oath about his affair with Monica Lewinsky. One must "parse" every sentence in Gary's response in order to decode the falsehoods and half truths contained in his statement. If you have not read it, you will find it posted on GFI's web site.

Robert Garcia has admitted to misappropriating funds from GFI. Estimates are as high as $500,000. Yet the accounting firm hired to do the embezzlement investigation said that Gary has claimed this was a "loan." Immediately after this apparent deceit, the accounting firm severed its relationship with Gary.>

Witness after witness has come forward over the years to attest to the fact that Gary has trouble telling the truth. I found him to be deceitful and vengeful in his attempt to destroy anyone who criticized his work.

Robert Garcia once told me that Gary will never admit when he is wrong. And in one staff meeting, former GFI Vice President Nick Carter told me never to tell Gary he was wrong about anything he had written. Gary's typical response to criticism is to lie about the person and then try to smear them. I expect he will try to do the same thing to me once this letter is published.

The pattern never seems to change. Instead of dealing with his own serious character flaws and sin issues, Gary attacks his critics and claims "victim" status.

Many of his supporters still naively believe him.

Regrettably, your publishing company is putting its credibility and reputation behind a man who claims to be a parenting expert and biblical scholar. You assure your readers that Multnomah is "keeping your trust--one book at a time." Yet one of your top-selling authors has been deceptive about his own educational background and his works are filled with medical inaccuracies. He fabricated the interview with Roy Maynard, and he created a plan to turn John MacArthur's ministry in to the Internal Revenue Service.

If integrity means anything to you, I would seriously suggest you take a long, hard look at the charges made against Gary Ezzo--not only from the Christianity Today article--but from two previous articles published in the Christian Research Journal. These are highly accurate accounts of Gary's philosophy and his deceitful ways.

I concur with John MacArthur and Dave Maddox: Gary is unfit to be a Christian leader in any capacity until he repents of his past behavior, his lies, and his attempts to destroy those who have honest questions about his inaccurate materials.

I do not believe your publishing company should lend its otherwise fine reputation to such a man. He has forfeited the right to be published or given any authority in the Church as a teacher.

By publishing his books, you are giving credibility to a man who does not deserve it. Nor do babies or children deserve to be harmed by the bad medical advice he gives in his materials.

As Christians, we have an obligation to hold our leaders accountable for their actions. When we fail to take care of disciplining the sinful behavior of our leaders, non-Christians in the media are more than eager to do so. News programs like "60 Minutes" or "20/20" would have great zeal in investigating Gary Ezzo, failure-to-thrive infants, and the publisher who markets his materials. The Church should clean up its own internal corruption before someone else does it for us.>

I look forward to your response to this letter. I would urge you to contact Gary's critics directly to let them tell their story. You would be wise to contact John MacArthur, Dave Maddox, the accounting firm of Hamilton, Boynton, and Speakman, and others who have serious concerns about Gary's character, his pattern of deceit, and flawed parenting materials. I will be more than happy to supply you with phone numbers of these contacts if you wish.>

I am posting this open letter on the Internet in a variety of forums so that Ezzo supporters and critics can evaluate it. I will also be willing to post your response to this letter when I receive it.

Let me assure you that there is far more to this story that still remains untold, but in time all things will come to the light.

For integrity and truth,

Frank York

7046 Bonnavent Drive
Hermitage, TN 37076
615-885-6356>

A Response to Gary Ezzo's Misstatements About a Former GFI Employee

February 16, 2001

By Frank York
Former GFI Editorial Director
April, 1996-May 11, 1998

The following is a response to Gary Ezzo's misleading comments about my employment at GFI, and the comments I made about Gary in the November 13, 2000 issue of Christianity Today.

The following is a verbatim transcript of comments Gary Ezzo made about me in an 18-page document entitled, "A Response to Christianity Today: 'Unprepared to Teach Parenting?'" (November 13, 2000)

The comments about me begin on page seven of this document. Gary's response has apparently only been distributed to GFI supporters. It has not been made public.

The comments in italics are my explanations of Gary's attempts to paint me as a disgruntled former employee and emotionally disturbed person who was so incompetent as a writer/editor that I had to be terminated.

Gary's comments about me are listed as "Item 19" of a series of libelous remarks and lies made about other reliable sources in the Christianity Today article who have had the courage to openly question Gary's lack of integrity.

Here is the section on me:


19. We do not believe Mr. York's comments added credibility to Mrs. Terner's report given the circumstances of his dismissal from GFI. And this is one of Mrs. Terner's and CT's key witnesses.

Frank came to our ministry from Focus on the Family. He presented himself as a ghost writer/editor. Anne Marie knew his wife from childhood. We hired him on that basis. We covered his moving expense from Colorado Springs and nearly doubled his salary. Unfortunately, he wasn't at GFI long when it became apparent that Mr. York did not possess the level of skills required to work for this ministry. In less than eighteen months, he went through three different supervisors. After a great deal of time, effort, and money, attempting to give Mr. York every chance to improve his skills, he was finally dismissed by the GFI administrative staff. A termination letter is on file, dated May 12, 1998 signed by Mr. York acknowledging and accepting the grounds of his dismissal.


Every word Gary uses must be carefully parsed in order to determine exactly what facts he is trying to conceal. In the paragraph above, Gary says I "presented" myself as a ghost writer/editor.

This gives the reader the impression that I sought Gary out for a job but had falsely represented myself as a ghost/writer editor. The facts are these: In early 1996, my wife and I went out to dinner with the Ezzos in Colorado Springs after they had presented a GFI seminar at a local church. When I told Gary about my background as an editor and ghost writer, he told me that he needed a ghost writer, and that I needed to come to work for him. In fact, he nearly hounded me all evening to come to work for him. I was not looking for a position with GFI. He offered me a job based upon my professional experience.

I have been a professional writer, working for a number of major ministries during the past 20 years. I have worked for CBN, writing materials for Pat Robertson. I was the staff writer for Tim and Beverly LaHaye in the mid-1980s. I worked for eight years as an editor/writer for Focus on the Family. These are not inconsequential ministries and my "skills" have always been adequate for the jobs I have had with these organizations.

Gary says it became obvious that I did not "possess the level of skills required to work for this ministry." This leaves the impression that I was incompetent in my work as an editor/writer. This is an untruth and every former GFI staffer knows it.

Gary is also misleading his readers by referring to GFI as a ministry. It is not a "ministry." It is a for-profit publishing firm that Gary operates for his own personal enrichment. He also runs a small, inconsequential nonprofit as a separate entity called Christian Family Heritage.

The next sentence in his commentary says that I went through "three different supervisors" while I was on staff. The implication here is that I was so inept and troublesome at my job that I had to be transferred from one manager to another, but finally had to be fired because no one could handle me. This is a deliberately misleading statement.

Here are the facts: When I came on staff, I was placed under the supervision of Robert Garcia (Gary's son-in-law who has now been shown to be an embezzler of GFI funds). When Tim Howard (Gary's brother-in-law) moved his family to California, he was to take over the graphics and editorial department. I was to be transferred under his leadership. Unfortunately, in an unethical bait-and-switch move, once Tim was in California, Robert and Gary changed jobs on him. He was placed over ministry outreach programs and Tom Buell was made head of graphics/editorial. I then worked for Tom until my firing in May, 1998.

Gary's statement that I "went through" three supervisors is a lie and totally misleading. I was never under Tim Howard because he was never permitted to take over the job he had been promised when he moved his family from New Hampshire. I had only two supervisors while at GFI. The transfer came in order to expand Tom Buell's responsibilities and free Garcia to do his other work.

Gary then says, "After a great deal of time, effort, and money, attempting to give Mr. York every chance to improve his skills, he was finally dismissed by the GFI administrative staff." This is a half truth, and it is misleading.

During my first year review, Robert Garcia told me that Gary had some vague dissatisfaction with my work. However, I was never told why he was dissatisfied. Nor did anyone on the staff tell me what "skills" I needed to improve. No staff member spent any time, effort, or money on me on skills improvement.

Another untruth that Gary told about my employment is that he nearly doubled my salary. The fact is that I received a 48% increase because of the inflated cost of living in California compared to Colorado. To say that he nearly doubled my salary is incorrect, and he should know better.

In an omission of fact, Gary fails to mention that a month after my firing, my wife and Anne Marie had breakfast together to discuss my firing. At the end of the conversation, Anne Marie asked Barbara if I would be willing to do freelance writing for them. My wife told her in no uncertain terms that I would never write another word for Gary. If my writing skills were so lacking for GFI's purposes, why would Anne Marie ask me to start writing again for them? Or, perhaps my "skills" were not really at issue in my firing, but something else.


Even though he was dismissed, GFI, in consideration of his age, gave him a very generous severance package including three months full salary. Although we attempted to treat his departure with dignity, Mr. York did not handle his dismissal very well, blaming GFI for his problems.

GFI did give me a generous severance package. But Gary is telling an untruth when he says I did not handle my dismissal very well. Robert complimented me on my family and on how well I was taking the news. I was relieved that my two year ordeal was finally over. I rejoiced at being fired. I believe I handled it very well because it was an answer to prayer. I never blamed GFI for any unnamed "problems."

One my primary jobs at GFI was to monitor Gary's "enemies" on the Internet. As I read their materials, I began to realize that his writings were filled with inaccuracies and medical advice that could not be backed up by research.

In fact, I turned in a lengthy report to him on failure-to-thrive infants who had suffered as a result of his parenting advice. He ignored the report, claiming that these cases were either "exaggerated" or "fabricated." In addition, in December of 1997, Robert Garcia asked me to go through Preparation for Parenting to document any medical inaccuracies in this book. I turned in my report in January, 1998 and included numerous examples of bad medical advice or statements made as "fact" that could not be substantiated. I never heard a word back from Robert or Gary about this report. I did, however, stop receiving work assignments after I turned in a truthful analysis of the inaccuracies in Gary's book.


Although disappointed, we are not completely surprised with Mr. York's post-departure ethic and speech. He did a similar thing when he left Focus on the Family, revealing his displeasures of how he was treated, some frightful stories about the children of certain VPs, and the infighting within management. In our own naivete we saw ourselves as a 'listening' post to someone who needed to vent. We can now see those conversations should have served as a 'yellow flag', reflecting how Mr. York dealt with unresolved conflict.

When he talked to me about coming to work for him, I told him that I had been praying about leaving Focus because of problems in my department and a drastic organizational restructuring taking place at Focus. We also discussed parenting styles, and I mentioned the fact that even Focus parents were having parenting problems. I thought it was appropriate to share these things with someone who was offering me a job. After Focus moved to Colorado, three-quarters of the people who moved with Focus from California eventually left the ministry. I was not alone in my inability to adjust to the explosive growth that Focus experienced.

At no time during my discussion of Focus with Gary did I ever make any disparaging remarks about Dr. Dobson. I have nothing but respect and admiration for Dr. Dobson. Since I left Focus on good terms, they have continued to give me work, and I am just completing my second book to be published by Focus on the Family.

This section is designed to paint me as a disgruntled former employee who is simply trying to get revenge upon Gary, the victim. He is also attempting to give the reader the impression that I have emotional problems and am still dealing with "unresolved conflicts."

Gary sent out the same kind of smear letter about Eric Abel after Eric went public with his concerns over Gary's lack of integrity. Eric and Julie Abel were two of the first founders of GFI, and were on GFI's teaching tapes for many years. They worked closely with the Ezzos. However, anyone who leaves GFI with honest concerns about Gary's questionable character can expect to be smeared by him.


Now, this is the man, Mrs. Terner would have CT readers believe, Gary Ezzo secretly confided in.

This is exactly what Gary did. He secretly confided in me in the GFI conference room while the company was still in Chatsworth, California. He called me into the conference room, asked me to close the door, and put a finger to his lips in a "hush-hush" gesture. It was clear that he wanted to discuss something confidential. Our graphic artist, just outside of the conference room attended John MacArthur's church.


In regards to the article, we really do not know whose version is being told, Frank's or Kathleen's. Here are the facts. While there is some truth to Mrs. Terner's statement, there was nothing clandestine about our inquiry, as she suggested. There was not just one conversation with Frank but many relating to why GFI will not use nonprofit labor to assist in writing any of our books. We did discuss the illegalities of a principal agent of a nonprofit, such as a pastor/teacher/radio personality, taking advantage of nonprofit donations for his personal gain. We had similar conversations with other staff members. The general discussion centered on whether nonprofit employees can legally work on personal book projects that eventually pay enormous royalties back to the pastor teacher each year and not the nonprofit? Can nonprofit labor be legally used this way?

Again, Gary is making misleading statements about this event in the GFI conference room. Gary told me that John MacArthur was engaged in a practice he thought violated IRS code. Gary knew that I had worked with a nonprofit attorney on IRS issues while at Focus so he asked me if I could get an attorney to give him a legal opinion about MacArthur's alleged practice. I told him I could contact my attorney friend. I also stated up front that this attorney charges around $200 an hour, but Gary said that was okay.

At no time did Gary think he was getting "free" legal advice from a high-powered Washington, D.C. attorney. Gary asked me to get this legal opinion on my own. He also said he wanted me to have the lawyer send the invoice to my home address, not to the GFI office. He said he would then reimburse me after I was billed by the attorney. I kept a copy of my check to the attorney and a copy of Anne Marie's check when I was reimbursed.

After I received this legal opinion, Gary said I'd failed to get all of the information he'd requested. He said he also wanted the address of the IRS office in the district where MacArthur's church was located. I then sent another email to the attorney asking him for the IRS address in the San Fernando Valley. I kept records of these exchanges.


The context of these questions came at a time when such things were being discussed by former Grace Church and Christian Research Institute (CRI) insiders. The question was and still is legitimate. We have no reason to back away from those conversations. What Mrs. Terner is attempting to now do is call into question our private legitimate concerns, as if we were wrong to have them. In so doing she has now unwittingly created a new public awareness of a practice that was only part of a private conversation. In one sense we are relieved that the question is now in the open so we do not have to side step it anymore.

Mr. York explained that from his experience, the hypothetical above was illegal. He volunteered that he had an attorney friend he could ask that specialized in such things. We could have asked one of our attorneys if we really wanted to know, but quite frankly, "free" sounded pretty good. (It turned out the attorney was not free. He did send Frank [a] small bill for his services that we ended up paying.)


As I stated in my previous comment, Gary understood from the beginning that he was going to be paying for this legal opinion. He is lying when he says he expected it to be free, but later found out he was being charged for it. Why would he tell me he would reimburse me for the cost of the legal opinion if he thought it was free? And why would he ask me to have the invoice sent to my home if he thought the advice was free? If something is free, you don't pay for it. Why was I asked to do this on my own and have the invoice sent to my home? It was to conceal Gary's involvement in a plan to turn John MacArthur over the IRS.


We do not know where this issue will lead in the future, but at no time in the past was this matter ever reported to the IRS by us or anyone we know, nor did we ask Mr. York to "obtain legal information to report Grace Community's MacArthur to the IRS." The statement is silly. If we had any intent or desire to do such a thing, we only had to pick up the phone and call the IRS ourselves. We did not need Mr. York or an attorney's opinion to help us figure that out.

Gary says he never reported John MacArthur to the IRS. This may be true, but he was certainly thinking about it and was doing everything he could to hide his involvement in the plan. He was using me as a conduit to conceal his involvement.


Conclusion
Before the Father of all glory, our conscience bears witness that we have attempted to conduct ourselves honorably before the Lord and men in all matters. We have spoken honestly. We are not the aggressors, or false accusers in the marketplace. We submitted ourselves to outside accountability. With both of our former ministry partners, we strove to fulfill Romans 14:19, "Let us therefore do everything that leads to peace and to mutual edification." In the past, we have written letters to both sets of elders seeking forgiveness if in any way we may have done something to offend them.

There is not much more we can do, except rest in the Lord and move on. But what about the church at large? Who will stand up and say "enough is enough" with this type of journalism and rumor muggering [sic]? Thank you for giving us the opportunity to respond.


This sounds like a prayer to the Lord, but it is actually just another commentary designed to portray himself as a Godly Christian leader who is being victimized by false accusers and aggressors who are determined to destroy him.

One can only wonder how a man who has been publicly rebuked by the leaders of two churches in recent years for his deceit, slanders, and lack of character, can still claim to have a clear conscience.

At the beginning of Gary's response to the Christianity Today article, he makes the following comment:


What is the Christian response to false accusations? This is not an easy question to answer for several reasons. First and foremost, one wrestles with the potential negative impact of a defense on the name of Christ. Yet, being falsely accused is a serious matter in the eyes of God. If a child of God is doing God's work, then the false accusers, in effect, attack God."

This statement should be carefully analyzed by anyone who wishes to know the truth about Gary Ezzo. Read what he is saying. He is claiming that: 1. He is a child of God doing God's work; 2. That those who are falsely accusing this child of God are actually attacking God.

In other words, anyone who criticizes Gary Ezzo is actually "falsely accusing" him and is attacking God.

In the first place, those who have written about Gary Ezzo (myself included) are not "falsely accusing" him. We are telling the truth about his lies, deceptions, and attempts to destroy those who criticize him. Second, he is guilty of bad logic. By refusing to acknowledge the truth of the charges against him, he is claiming that those who are critical of him are guilty of attacking God. To criticize Gary Ezzo is not to attack God.

Those who wish to continue being deceived by Gary will do so. Those who can discern the truth, however, will be set free from the strange hold he has over people and churches.

It is my prayer that God's truth will ultimately prevail in this controversy.

Frank York
Hermitage, Tennessee

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Maternal use of parent led routines associated with short breastfeeding duration.

Published Feb 12, 2014
Brown A, Arnott B (2014) Breastfeeding Duration and Early Parenting Behaviour: The Importance of an Infant-Led, Responsive Style. PLoS ONE 9(2): e83893. DOI: 10.1371/journal.pone.0083893

"Results: Formula use at birth or short breastfeeding duration were significantly associated with low levels of nurturance, high levels of reported anxiety and increased maternal use of Parent-led routines . Conversely an infant-led approach characterised by responding to and following infant cues was associated with longer breastfeeding duration."

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