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An Open Letter To Pastors Who Use Gary Ezzo’s Parenting Materials

Fall, 2002

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Dear Pastor:

As the overseer of your congregation, you deserve to be fully informed about Gary Ezzo, including his character and his ethics. By teaching his materials, your church is identifying with him as a man of integrity and one who is to be trusted. You have a serious responsibility to your congregation to know who and what you are endorsing.

In churches where Gary Ezzo’s materials are taught, his philosophy of parenting very often becomes viewed as the only accepted way of rearing children. This frequently leads to tension within the church when Ezzo parents view non-Ezzo parents as unwilling to train their children “God’s Way” and are therefore viewed as being deficient and inferior parents.

In numerous churches throughout the United States, Gary Ezzo’s parenting materials have created an “Us-Versus-Them” mentality that is unhealthy for any church. In fact, one pastor recently emailed me to say that when Ezzo’s materials were taught at his church, it became the most divisive thing his church had ever done. He stopped allowing Ezzo’s materials to be taught two years ago, but is still trying to rebuild a sense of unity and trust between parents who had split over Gary Ezzo’s teachings.

As one who worked on Gary Ezzo’s staff for two years as his editorial director, I think you might be interested in learning more about my experiences working with him from April, 1996 to May 11, 1998.

I am including a link to a recent article I wrote for Midwest Christian Outreach, a reputable cult-watch group based in Illinois. The article, “Adventure in Ezzoland,” describes my experience working with the Ezzos and reveals a number of disturbing facts about Gary Ezzo—including his plagiarism of the work of a psychologist, his untruths, and his shameful mistreatment of family members. You can access my article here: “Adventure in Ezzoland”

I am also aware that Gary has distributed a letter to GFI-supportive churches to explain away the controversies surrounding questions about his character and teaching materials. In his letter, he has targeted a number of individuals, including myself. His comments about me and others are a series of untruths.

I am writing to you to set the record straight about the things he has written about me. You may have received one of these letters and have assumed that he is telling the truth. So, in the interest of fairness, I am going to include a number of links to materials that will show you that Gary is disseminating untruths and libelous statements about his critics.

Just to give you a bit of my background: I served for eight years as an editor with Focus on the Family; served as staff writer for Tim and Beverly LaHaye in the mid-1980s; and worked as a writer/researcher for the Christian Broadcasting Network in the early 1980s. Focus and Tyndale Publishers recently published my book, Protecting Your Child in an X-Rated World, which is being sold by Focus on the Family and by various other ministries. I have also written for WorldNetDaily and other Christian organizations during the past 22 years.

My experience on the GFI staff is explained in three letters I wrote to his former publisher, Multnomah, over an eight-month period last year.

Here are the links to those letters:

http://www.ezzo.info/York/yorkletter1.htm

http://www.ezzo.info/York/yorkletter2.htm

http://www.ezzo.info/York/yorkletter3.htm

In the link below, I have responded to letter that Gary sent out to churches that are supportive of his teachings. His lengthy letter attacks each person who has criticized him. I know all of these people and their integrity is unquestioned. I have responded point-by-point to Gary’s fabrications about me. As you read these accounts, you will observe a troubling pattern on the part of Ezzo’s responses to criticism and concerns about his teaching and personal character issues.

http://www.ezzo.info/York/yorkresponse_feb2001.htm

I am also including links to other resources for you to read about Gary Ezzo.

If you will honestly examine these materials, you will come to the same conclusion that I did—along with two of his former pastors, another former employee, several former contact moms, his former accountant, etc.—that as Dr. John MacArthur has written: “It appears rather obvious on biblical grounds that Mr. Ezzo's refusal to heed his own church's discipline disqualifies him from Christian leadership or public ministry in any context. After all, the first and most important qualification for those who would lead the church is that they be above reproach (1 Timothy 3:2, 10; Titus 1:6).”

I am sure that when your church adopted GFI’s curricula, there was not as much known in the Body of Christ about the unsound aspects of GFI’s teaching, nor had Gary Ezzo’s background been exposed.

This link below will take you to the ezzo.info site. You will find the full text of Grace Community Church’s and Living Hope Evangelical Fellowship’s public rebukes of Gary for being a liar and slanderer. Gary typically leaves a church before the church leadership can complete its disciplinary process of his sins. You will find a wealth of other information about Gary on this site.

http://www.ezzo.info

In November, 2000, Christianity Today did an expose on Gary. I was interviewed for this article because of my insider knowledge of how Gary operates his organization and how he treats his critics. Here it is:

Unprepared to Teach Parenting?

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2000/013/6.70.html

In July, 2000, Christianity Today published a story indicating that Multnomah had decided to drop Gary as an author. Immediately, Multnomah Publisher, Don Jacobson overruled others at the company and published a statement that the investigation was still in process. The link to this story is below:

Babywise almost dropped

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2001/009/12.20.html

On September 12, 2001, Multnomah issued a statement saying it was returning publishing rights to Gary Ezzo for all of his books. The statement praised Ezzo and attacked his critics who are accused of refusing to meet with Multnomah in a “reconciliation” meeting with Ezzo. The critics, including myself, declined to meet with Multnomah because we knew this was nothing more than a public relations ploy to make Multnomah and Ezzo look good. The press statement was classic spin-doctoring.

I hope you will read each of the articles I’ve linked to in this letter. You have probably only heard Gary Ezzo’s side of this controversy. It is important for you to hear the other side.

Yours in Christ—and for the truth,

Frank York

Items from the AAP News

The following is a synopsis with links to articles written up at the time:

In April and May of 1998, two articles appeared in the AAP News. According to Babywise advice linked to dehydration, failure to thrive by Dr. Matt Aney, Babywise contains many unsubstantiated medical statements, offers questionable medical advice and even disagrees with the official AAP Policy Statement on Breastfeeding. (Please also see the Media Alert by the AAP.).

Dr. Robert Bucknam, co-author of Babywise wrote a response to the April piece by Aney. We have asked the AAP for web reprint permission so that we can present Bucknam's position adequately. Dr. Aney has also asked the AAP for such permission. They have indicated that Bucknam needs to approve of such before they can grant us this right. So, Aney has asked Bucknam for such permission. If it is granted, we will present Bucknam's response alongside Aney's article. (Until then we can only quote from it.)

I have a few comments on the statistics in Bucknam's statement. You can also read Aney's letter to the editor of the AAP News about Bucknam's comments and some excellent comments made by Jan Barger, RN, MA, IBCLC on Bucknam's response.

August 2004--Ezzo has recently (on his website FAQ and elsewhere) been referring to "a published report" in the AAP News in 1998 and to studies published by the AAP News in 1998. He is actually referring to Babywise co-author Dr. Robert Bucknam's May 1998 response piece described above and not to any independent, peer-reviewed published study. 

A Statistician Looks At Dr. Bucknam's Rebuttal

Dr. Steve Rein's Comments on Statistics

Having, at last, the opportunity to read Dr. Bucknam's comments in the AAP News on the whole Prep/Babywise controversy, I have a few comments in reply. As much of his reply concerned some statistical comparisons of PDF babies with others, I feel as though my comments will be on solid ground as I have a PhD in Statistics (but, alas, lack formal training in Theology, Lactation and Medicine).

Non-Statistical Comments

  • I am sort of shocked that Bucknam claims to be surprised by this controversy. After all, he's been interviewed by reporters on this issue and he most assuredly knows that Growing Families International (GFI), the company that promotes the use of Babywise and Prep has a group of volunteer "contact moms" who reportedly have helped people deal with FTT babies.
  • I am pleased that Bucknam points out that they are not opposed to demand feeding but I am a bit surprised as well. After all, his co-author Gary Ezzo once wrote in an early edition of Preparation for Parenting (the decidedly religious precursor to "Babywise"):

    ``Working from a biblical mindset and practicing demand-feeding can never be harmonized since the two are incompatible philosophies.''

    in his attempt to cast demand feeding in a negative light. Interestingly enough, Ezzo wrote this in the "Prep" materials that Bucknam most likely used himself back around the beginning of the '90s. I guess Bucknam doesn't read very carefully what his co-author writes.

    Even in the first edition of Babywise which Bucknam co-authored, demand feeding is roundly castigated. I suspect that Bucknam and Ezzo were simply unaware of what constituted the practice known as demand feeding. Once the AAP released their statement supporting demand feeding and once they re-affirmed that scheduling is suspect, at best, Bucknam and Ezzo realized that what they had been criticizing and calling by the name demand feeding has no relation to demand feeding as defined by the AAP, Lactation Consultants and Le Leche League (LLL - an organization criticized by Ezzo for it's promotion of demand feeding) and practiced by millions throughout the world. (I do need to wonder how a pediatrician, an author of a book on infant care at that, could not know the meaning of demand feeding.)

Statistical Comments

First off, Bucknam's piece is a good example of the sorts of articles I like to bring into my freshman introduction to statistics class. It is brief yet offers even introductory students an opportunity to critique many issues at hand. I thank Bucknam for making his comments accessible in this way. Some issues that I would hope students would identify in Bucknam's article include:

  • Peer Review?


    None of the data Bucknam cites on PDF infants has been published. We should be reluctant to accept as fact any statistics which haven't been through the peer review process.
  • FTT and dehydration?


    The only evidence that Bucknam presents that PDF does not cause FTT and dehydration (something that Aney claims may be the case) is that because of PDF principles he hasn't observed any cases of either in the more than 2000 babies in his practice. I find this incredible.

    Let's assume for the moment that each FTT and dehydration occur in about 1% of the population (Note: I have put out a call to get some authoritative numbers on rates of dehydration and FTT and until I "get the goods", my comments assume for the purpose of some quick calculations a guess at these rates, 1%, by Jan Barger, RN, MA, IBCLC. Barger's guess at the rates appears to be fairly good as another IBCLC and two pediatricians who are internationally recognized breastfeeding experts agreed that 1% is, if anything, a bit low. When, and if, new numbers come in, I will revise my comments accordingly.) Then, Bucknam should be see in his 2000 patients about 20 cases of each and it is impossible that he saw zero either. If the use of PDF on Bucknam's patients caused their chance of each FTT and dehydration to be one half that of the population as a whole, he should still see about 10 cases of each and the chance that he would see zero of either is about 1 in 500 million (this assumes FTT and dehydration occur roughly independently in patients which, although not literally true, due to the way the cases would present themselves is approximately true). If PDF cut the rates of both FTT and dehydration by 80%, the chance that he would see zero cases of either is still large, about 1 in 3000. This means that we can only conclude one of several things about Bucknam's practice based on his claim of zero cases in 2000 patients:

    • Either he isn't correctly diagnosing true cases of FTT and dehydration in his patients. (Which doesn't fill me with confidence in his medical skills.)
    • Or his PDF method is helpful at reducing the FTT and dehydration rates and he is luckier than the person who wins the Virginia Lotto drawing three consecutive weeks.
    • Or his PDF method is amazingly helpful and he is still lucky. If his method is good enough to reduce the FTT and dehydration rates by 80% it needs to be seriously investigated as it may be one of those miracle breakthroughs that, at little cost to healthcare providers and insurance companies virtually eliminates some costly medical conditions.
    • Or, he may have hired a Lactation Consultant who checks in with new mothers in his practice on a daily basis during the early weeks and weekly thereafter to catch FTT and dehydration before they occur. Of course, this is not a cheap solution, but it is a good one. On the other hand, the lack of FTT and dehydration in his practice would, in this case, more likely be due to the intervention of a LC than anything else, including PDF.
    • Or, what I think is most likely, Bucknam meant to write that he hasn't seen a FTT or dehydration case that he would attribute to the use of his PDF feeding schedule. (To be very honest, this is what I believe he intended to say but it is not what he did write.) No surprise here. Without controls it is remarkably easy to explain away any negative results. Such is the case in medical research. In observational studies without controls, new treatments often look remarkable but upon further investigation appear to be less than impressive. It is very easy (and tempting) for physicians to explain away all the failures as having not been caused by their treatment. This is why we require a more thorough analysis before accepting any particular medical practice as either safe or effective.
    In any case, based on the data from Bucknam's practice, PDF appears to be worth the serious consideration of the AAP. An experiment or perhaps a retrospective study may help shed some light on whether PDF is a savior, simply safe or a seducer. Barring a costly study, the issue can be approached on theoretical grounds by the AAP: "Does PDF match up with or go against the current medical knowledge?".
  • Healthy Sleep?

    Bucknam mentions a sample of 520 babies, 97 percent of which sleep through the night by 12 weeks.

    • How were these 520 babies sampled? If they were chosen because they slept through the night early it should be no surprise that they slept through the night early.
    • Even if the sample had been representative of those who use PDF, we cannot truly say that we know that PDF helps sleep at night without a control group.
    • To suggest that healthy infants need to sleep thru the night (7 to 8 hours) or that ten to eleven hours of sleep per night is a "success" is an assertion with no justification.

      Also, I wonder how the length of sleep of the infant was measured. If the information was obtained from a questionnaire, we don't know that, in fact, these infants have simply learned that their nighttime cries will be ignored and so don't bother to indicate their wakefulness (or hunger) by crying. Would that situation be a considered a success?
    • Even if PDF did help infants sleep through the night, that doesn't mean that PDF is a good thing to use. There may be grave drawbacks to its use, for example if FTT occurs in just 2% of PDF using babies (doubling the risk of a serious medical condition), an 97% success rate at nighttime sleep would be far less tempting to parents.
  • Successful Breastfeeding?


    Bucknam mentions a study of 240 moms who use PDF and notes that 70 percent of them breastfeed (not necessarily exclusively) into the sixth month and compares that to data from Pediatrics which shows that across the US only about 20 percent of mothers breastfeed into the sixth month.

    • The sample of PDF babies was one of convenience. Such a sampling scheme brings with it the potential for bias. As an example, Bucknam points out that in his convenient sample, some 70% of moms breastfeed for at least 6 months. I would suggest that at a typical LLL conference would contain at least 95% mothers who have nursed their infants past the 6 month mark. The conclusion: either LeLecheLeague is better than GFI or convenience samples give data of little value or both. Perhaps if Bucknam had been more clear about how the convenient sample had been obtained we could have a better idea of how representative the sample was of the population of PDF moms.
    • The sample wasn't just one of convenience from the population of those who had read Babywise or been thru a Prep class. It was a sample of those who had successfully introduced the PDF schedule. We have no information about outcomes in infants who's mothers had attempted to use the PDF schedule but didn't meet Bucknam's definition of "following the PDF method". This may be an unfortunate oversight, but I think that physicians and parents care about all those who attempt to use the method, not just those who use it and succeed. After all, if we only look at success stories and refuse to consider failures, we might think that the bloodletting is the best cure for headaches. Hyperbole, sure, but it certainly does make the point.
    • Comparing a group of committed PDF followers to the general population in terms of breastfeeding rates is the apples versus oranges problem. Maybe if we could find a group of individuals who felt that feeding on demand was "God's Way" we could fairly assess the impact of PDF versus this other program. (Perhaps religious LLL members who feel that breastfeeding on demand is what God intended?)
    • Bucknam nowhere defines "successful" breastfeeding but implies that at least some breastfeeding into the sixth month of life is a success. Might I remind him of the recent AAP statement which recommends that infants should be exclusively breastfeed into the 6th month.

      Again, without a comparable control group, such figures as the 70% Bucknam cites are essentially meaningless.
    • Even if a fact, 70% of PDF mother breastfeeding at 6 months of age doesn't speak to the issue Dr. Aney raised. Namely, FTT. Many physicians and parents would also like to know of the risks before simply adopting such a method. I suspect in a case such as this one, if parents knew the true success and failure rates of the PDF method and of alternative methods (such as demand feeding), they would choose thoughtfully. I would again encourage Dr. Bucknam and Mr. Ezzo to allow lactation professionals to do a prospective study comparing the health outcomes of the infants who are subjected to their method and those who are subjected to demand feeding.
  • Excellent Weight Gain?

    Bucknam also cites an internal study which compares the weight gain of 200 PDF and 200 demand fed babies noting no significant differences between the two groups.

    • Presumably Bucknam finds it significant that there is no significant difference between PDF and demand fed infants. Why, then, write a book critical of demand feeding? If PDF and demand fed kids are essentially the same, why bother with a schedule at all? (Of course, with a larger sample, we may, indeed, see statistically significant differences between the two groups. But no statistically significant difference in this moderately large sample means that even if there was a statistically significant difference between the two groups in a larger sampling, the difference we would not observe would not be clinically important.)
    • Again, how were the 400 infants selected. The point may be a bit belabored by now, but unless a clear protocol is presented and passed through peer-review, we have absolutely no idea that the two groups are comparable at all.
    • Even if PDF infants had gained weight better than demand fed (note: I'm still not quite sure which definition of demand feeding Bucknam is using, the one in the first edition of his book which reads something like "feed the baby at every cry but only then" or the one from the AAP that he recently said he agrees with) infants in a well designed study (which we don't know we have), we still wouldn't know that PDF is what helps the infants gain weight. One would need an experiment to determine this. Simply put, PDF followers may be of high socioeconomic status, highly motivated to "follow the rules" and to "do it right" and they may have a solid support network while the typical parent who claims to follow demand feeding in these four practices may have been poor and undereducated, not be as motivated to follow through on all aspects of their chosen method and entirely lacking in a support network. Like in the last two studies, a comparable control group, one with similar motivation as the PDF parents would provide us better information than the one we have here.
    • One of the reasons that the two groups may have had similar weight gain patterns, even if PDF were inferior to demand feeding is that the PDF infants, as a group, may very well have formula suplimentation in far higher rates than the demand group. This would not be evidence of successful breastfeeding, but it would increase the typical calorie intake of infants who are not getting enough breastmilk on the PDF schedule.

    As a parting note, I would like to revisit Bucknam's comment that "there is nothing more rewarding than helping new and expectant parents." I would like to point out that we still have been offered no information that Bucknam's PDF method is actually helping anyone, parents or children. Bucknam is only of the opinion that his method is helpful. A serious investigation of the matter by the AAP would help sort this out. I would hope that Bucknam and Ezzo would join me and others in asking the AAP to study their method and determine if, indeed, it delivers what it promises.

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"It is dangerous to do it the way he describes," Pediatrician Dr. Rosemary Shy says of Ezzo's technique. "It puts these babies at risk for jaundice, at risk for dehydration, and at risk for failing to thrive, all of which we’ve seen." -- Wilson, Steve, "Baby Care Controversy," WXYZ-Detroit, November 14, 2004

 

Arnold Tanis, MD, FAAP
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Our first child was born in the summer of 09, and I promptly began trying to apply the Babywise method. The book had been highly recommended by a distant relative, and promised structure and sanity amidst the exhaustion and upheaval I felt as a new mother. However, our baby did not respond the way the book promised he would if we followed the schedule. All my attempts to adhere to the book led to deep frustration, arguments with my husband (who knew better than to let a book dictate our newborn's schedule), feeling like a failure, and the worst--resentment of my infant. Why couldn't he sleep and eat like the book said he should be doing? The Ezzos presented their arguments as infallible.
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Key Documentation

LIVING HOPE EVANGELICAL FELLOWSHIP:
Excommunication Statement

GRACE COMMUNITY CHURCH:
Statement about Ezzo - Materials

GRACE COMMUNITY CHURCH:
Statement about Ezzo - Character

CHRISTIAN RESEARCH INSTITUTE:
"The Cultic Characteristics of Growing Families International"
(originally titled "More than a Parenting Ministry")

CHRISTIAN RESEARCH INSTITUTE:
"GFI"
(orginally titled "A Matter of Bias?")

CHRISTIANITY TODAY:
Unprepared to Teach Parenting?

CHRISTIANITY TODAY:
Babywise Publisher Plans Contract Cancellation

AMERICAN ACADEMY of PEDIATRICS:
Media Alert